If you talk to dogs like they’re people, psychologists say you share these common personality traits

Having a pet is an increasingly significant responsibility. People who choose to have one usually do so because they genuinely enjoy it (or at least, that’s how it should be), as caring for a pet can sometimes be very demanding depending on the animal and its breed. A lack of time to care for them can be a problem, and many animals are abandoned each year for various reasons.

However, there are those who go above and beyond in caring for and showing affection to their pets, treating them almost like a family member. Some even talk to them as if they were people. This can be a way to cope with, for example, loneliness, or simply a means of expressing thoughts—even knowing that no verbal response will come from the animal.

According to psychology, this behavior can signify several things. One of them, explains La Razón, is empathy. A strong connection develops with the pet, and the bond is very close. Owners can often tell when their pets are happy or uncomfortable and act accordingly. In this way, a gesture of affection toward the animal can help it feel secure.

Emotional intelligence, creative thinking…

Secondly, it may indicate a high level of emotional intelligence. The ability to recognize and appropriately manage the emotions of others is common among people who handle social and emotional relationships well. Some people also talk to their pets to express their “discomfort” when interacting with other humans, finding peace in the solitude of their home alongside their four-legged friend. For them, being surrounded by people is not necessary to feel fulfilled.

Similarly, it can also be related to creative thinking. According to a study, speaking our thoughts out loud enhances cognitive ability and problem-solving skills. This can extend to talking to a pet, even though no response is expected.

Another aspect revealed by talking to a pet is mindfulness—the practice of being fully present in the moment. In this sense, talking to the animal helps focus on the interaction, allowing one to temporarily set aside worries or stressful situations.

Finally, the last two aspects are related to a natural predisposition to care for loved ones—whether people or animals—and authenticity. Even without expecting a verbal response, one can express themselves freely, without fear of judgment, which can bring a sense of relief and liberation.

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