If you help a waiter clear the table, psychologists say you have these common personality traits
Helping a waiter to clean a table may be more than just a simple act of kindness.
A simple act like stacking plates at a restaurant might seem like a courteous gesture, but psychologists suggest it reveals much more about a person’s character. This small action can offer insights into traits such as empathy, social anxiety, or a desire for approval.
Psychologist Francisco Tabernero explained (via Complexions Dance) that helping a waiter clear the table isn’t just about politeness. It can indicate a person’s awareness of others’ efforts and a willingness to ease their workload.
However, not all motivations behind this act are rooted in kindness. For some, the urge to help may stem from social anxiety or a need to avoid negative judgment. This behaviour is known as passive assertiveness, and is said to seek approval rather than actually working for your own needs.
These subtle showings of personality extend beyond dining experiences. In professional settings, employees who engage in helpful behaviours can enhance team productivity and cohesion. Such actions demonstrate dedication to the group’s success and are valuable soft skills in any workplace.
A kind word. A helping hand. A smile when someone needs it most. These little moments, often unnoticed, can change everything for someone. And the best part? Kindness multiplies. It ripples out. Be the reason someone believes in good again today. pic.twitter.com/45YlurA2IQ
— Restoring Your Faith in Humanity (@HumanityChad) September 13, 2025
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